My husband is a very playful person, not a few hours a day at home, outside every day, I do not know what he is doing outside, is it so fun? I need him by my side, but he doesn’t care about you, just know to play, I really fire, I even feel that he has someone else outside, so every day and he quarrel, now we become very bad, I don’t know what happened, always suspect that he has a woman outside, you say I should do?
Today’s women always want to marry a good husband, even if not very good, but at least they like, can accompany themselves every day. Therefore, how to tighten the fence to prevent other women from drilling the hole is the work of most women all their lives, and it is also a post that they guard all their lives. However, in the modern era of three-dimensional all-round openness, there are also many social phenomena that make women feel uncomfortable, especially the emergence of more and more erotic temptations in society. Especially the kind of genetic genes that men are born to like the new and not tired of the old, especially the kind of flowers that men reveal from time to time, especially the kind of special enthusiasm that the husband shows to his bestie, especially the boyfriend’s natural fun character, always let themselves at ease. As a result, many women always worry that their husband will violate the agreement of mutual loyalty between husband and wife, always worry that her husband will be confused by the “fox spirit”, always want to constrain the husband who is lecherous and playful, and always try to control the husband and prevent the husband from crossing the line. As a result, the opposite is true, either constantly bickering, or the husband does not want to come home all day. In fact, people can not control, there is no need to fight or stir up the crowd, as long as you treat your boss attitude, treat your children’s love, treat your parents’ concern, treat your first lover’s tolerance, treat mentally handicapped children’s patience, plus a woman’s unique tenderness and charm, you can simply let the playful husband keep at home.
- Respect and care. Love needs two people to work together, and family construction needs the joint efforts of both husband and wife. A woman needs to be loved by a man, but a man just needs to be respected by the woman he loves. Although you are a very assertive wife, but in the handling of major family issues you should remember to ask your husband’s opinion, although it will not affect the marriage, but often let the husband feel not due respect.
- Understand the mind. Remember not to complain about your mother-in-law in front of others, it shows that you are very undisciplined, and don’t expect your husband to agree with you, because he will never say anything bad about his mother. At the same time, do not habitually scold your husband in front of the child, but can not tamper with or deny the husband’s method of educating the child and the content of the conversation in front of the child, which not only can not let you establish authority, but will make you more authoritative. Therefore, understanding her husband’s mind is the key to convince her husband.
- Develop interests. Find out what he likes to do, and if it’s a party with friends, try to fit in with their group and hang out with him. Ask him to take you when he goes out to play, but it’s best not to be a downer, try to have fun with him, or invite his friends to the house to play, reduce the opportunity to go out.
- Give face. Men are good face, always hope that the wife can remember to give themselves enough face in the public, it is best to be able to obey, submissive, dare not resist, do not bring the habits of the home to outsiders, to avoid men outside the stage. Men can tolerate the wife’s unreasonable, but will never tolerate the wife’s heart is not kind, therefore, at home you can act rude and unreasonable, but outside you must behave like a lady properly, especially in front of important guests should pay attention.
- Charming husband. Men are visual animals, if you can’t bring him visual beauty, he will go to other places to look for this visual beauty, therefore, to control the husband’s heart is to let him have the feeling that you can retain the heart for a long time, don’t be untidy in front of the husband.
- Manage your purse strings. You can let the husband hand in the pay card, you can also let the husband truthfully report where the money goes, and even use the accounting system, but you should first give the husband a petty money ah, if the husband has no money in his pocket, the embarrassment will be your own. But remember to return the credit card to your husband before going out for shopping and dining, and he can queue up to pay for your shopping or consumption after you, which can give you more rest time and save the face of the husband’s head of the family.
- Develop hobbies. Many women rely on a strong sense of awareness, but often as usual, will lose personal independence, over time, men will produce boredom. Therefore, women should cultivate their independence, develop their own hobbies, and don’t always pay attention to their husbands.
- Fight fire with fire. This means that he likes to have fun, you go out to have fun, every day 5 to 20 minutes before he is ready to go out dressed up. Whether it’s going out shopping, going to a friend’s house, it’s going out. As for coming back, just come back after eating and don’t bother with him. A month. It’ll work.
